Using the Tools
Learnings from Using the Tools
- No tool is a panacea. No tool is guaranteed to be always successful.
- All tools (including the words we use) are potentially dangerous and must be used with care.
- To use any tool requires a certain degree of risk and courage on the part of the user.
- Respectful practice suggest that knowing and respecting the culture and learning preferences of the client is an important way to minimise this risk.
- No single metaphor will appeal to everyone. If the tool or metaphor isn’t helpful, move on.
- Sometimes it can be helpful to talk about why something hasn’t worked (‘therapeutic stuff-ups’) to gain insight into other possibilities for exploration.
- The extent to which the worker is comfortable with and enjoys the tool seems to be a key factor in the successful introduction and contextualisation of the resource.
- The best metaphors are often the ones clients create themselves. Listening for the client’s own metaphors can be more helpful than waiting for the right moment to introduce a predetermined conversational prompt. Nevertheless, having a range of prompts can allow for a matching of tools to the client’s needs and interests.
- Sometimes clients can experience the joy of discovery when they ‘bump into’ tools that might be sitting unannounced on the worker’s desk or as part of a travelling toolbox.
- Tools do not have to be complete or comprehensive to work effectively. Occasionally we find someone is concerned that one of our card sets leaves an important concept out. We believe that if the cards suggest something that is not explicit, then they have done their job. We also believe that in many situations it is better to make a selection of cards rather than use the full set.
- There is nothing sacred about our cards. They can be stuck on noticeboards or fridge doors. They can be given away. However, this is one reason we produce stickers; it means they can be given away more cheaply and with less temptation to infringe copyright!
- All our materials are simply a means to an end. They can amplify the power of words and can be used in ways that celebrate multiple intelligences and different learning styles. But they are dispensable. And it can certainly be of great long-term value to work with clients to create their own materials that explore and celebrate learning, growth and curiosity.
All Innovative Resources’ materials rely on the creativity and sensitivity of the user. They do not require preparatory training courses and, as mentioned earlier they do not come with an instruction manual.
However, there are factors that need to be considered to ensure the materials are used purposefully and respectfully. The cards work best when the timing and circumstances are conducive to opening up respectful, safe and honest communication.. Judging the right moment to introduce the cards relies on the skill, creativity and sense of timing of the person introducing them.
Dear IR folk,
I have been using your resources now for a number of years and they are fantastic. They are well produced, and (of Course) innovative, and creative – and able to be applied to a number of different fields. I use them in Pastoral counseling and in Spiritual Direction. I love them, and recommend them to many friends. Thank you. Keep up the great work.
Hi
I work as a Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner at the Wagga Wagga Family Relationship Centre; we have ordered the strength cards, and are very keen to explore ways we can use them in family mediation.
Any ideas?
Many thanks
Althea Brunskill
Althea, thanks for the inquiry, we love to hear from people and generate discussion around these topics. Firstly the Strength Cards come with a booklet and there is a specific chapter about Questions for parents and families (Page 16). You can read the Strength Card Booklet on our website at http://www.innovativeresources.org/default.asp?initialcontentid=20976&initialbaseroot=20548 it includes ideas about how to use the Strength Cards in family discussions or use them individually to reinforce strengths that may have been forgotten. There are also some great stories on the page about people using the cards in many ways. There are no rules in using the Strength Cards and the experiences of our many contributors is so important in reinforcing the value of these resources, sometimes in ways we didn’t even think off initially. Read a few ideas, recreate them to suit yours or your clients circumstances and give us some feedback. If you have more questions I’ll get some of our experienced heads around the place to contribute as well.
In a fish ‘n’ chip shop!
My daughter went to Adelaide recently to catch up with an old friend. While over there, they drove down south to visit a winery in McClarenvale and stopped in Port Elliot to buy fish’n'chips. On the wall in the kitchen, clearly visible from the shop, was a collection of Innovative Resources cards from various packs. It was too busy for her to ask about the relevance of the cards, but it just goes to show that there is no end to the possible applications for seriously optimistic materials!
Would you like salt and vinegar with those Strength Cards?
One of my colleagues works in a young persons’ substance abuse team which is really focused on 1:1 work. A young client insisted on bringing Mum along to sessions and my colleague wasn’t sure if or how to involve her – she tended to just sit rather passively. We hit on the idea of using strength cards to engage her and her son in a conversation about “which strengths Mum was using to help her son in his project to give up cannabis?” Useful!